Its tough to let something be. It sure is. The reasons are many-1) you are nosy and itchy; 2) you're being pushed to bring change though you don't really see the need for it; 3) you are so passionate that you can't stand to see something amiss or 4) you're just bored. Few can help you if you're 1. It is commendable if they'd even let you into a group. It is Indian mentality to be resistant to change. Albeit very less in a few cases, still.
You know better than to be 2. There's infinite force and often zero momentum. It won't be too late before you realize your life sucks. All of us are 4 at some point or the other. Its okay to be 4 as long as the change is harmless. 3 is the most uncomfortable to be. Its neither a disease you have nor a result of external force. Its all within. You can well live without pursuing it, but you don't want to, coz you know you have a chance. Its worse when what drives the passion is something intangible. You cant see it to erase it or destroy it. All you have is discomfort and the urge to put an end to it. It doesn't take too much to get used to the discomfort. All it takes is to change that one part of the code in your mind that reads "Not OK" to "OK". But that's an uphill task when years of writing and rewriting that code strengthens the definition of OK. And to such extent that unless the actual matches the ideal to every dot, you can never rest.
You like everything about the way things are. That is paradise.
